How to Prepare Your Child for a Successful School Year: 10 Tips That Get Results
Another school year is here! As we prepare for the new school year, we understand that there could be a mix of optimism and anxiety for children and parents alike.
There are so many items on our to-do lists: shopping for clothing, shoes, backpacks, lunch bags, and school supplies. We also have to figure out lunches and transportation, as well as how to fit in extracurricular activities. Our children are likely to be facing fears and stressors of their own, thinking about friends, teachers, grades, fitting in, and sometimes feeling the need to meet certain expectations.
This is a lot of weight that we are all carrying.
We want to assure you that going back to school does not need to be filled with stress, there are steps you can take to help make this transition successful and enjoyable.
We've compiled some helpful tips to make this school year a success for everyone, including tactile, visual, and kinesthetic learners!
1. Hydration
Make sure your child gets plenty of waterThis is critical for optimal brain function. I know a lot of people are not fond of drinking water, but there are ways around that. One great way to get your child drinking water and even getting some good nutrition is by using a pitcher that infuses fruits and veggies into the water, making for a pleasing taste. Of course during school hours it will be more difficult to make sure your child is hydrated, but it is worth talking with your child’s teacher to see if something can be worked out.
2. Diet
Proper dietBecause I am a mother and grandmother, I am not naïve about kids and their eating preferences! But we are the adults and we can begin to instill good eating habits a bit at a time. Some tips for helping your children down more veggies and fruits and less sugar and snacks is to find their favorite veggies, find a dip that they love, and incorporate this into homework time or after school snack. Ideas? Ranch dressing, hummus, and ketchup. Try cold cucumber slices, cherry or grape tomatoes, raw cauliflower chunks, carrots or celery to dip in hummus, soft cheese or ranch dressing.
3. Sleep
Enough sleepRoutine and schedule are your friends. Have a set bedtime and stick to it. Turn off media about an hour before bedtime to ensure your child’s brain has time to quiet before going to bed. Try a warm bath, a book read together, any good routine that calms and comforts your child before he or she goes to sleep. A well rested child will perform better at school.
4. Exercise
Plenty of physical activity
So much is said about the need for vigorous physical activity to counter obesity, but just as important is the need for active play in order to get the various regions in the brain communicating well which is critical to good functioning in school. Also, active play helps the body acquire oxygen, helps a child feel good mentally and emotionally, and will prepare a child for a good night’s sleep. There are many positive benefits that come from children being active.
5. Low Tech
Limit technology
Again, I am well aware of the pull of technology to kids these days, and also am very aware of how the educational community is pushing technology as a teaching tool. The truth about technology and children’s brains, however, dictates that we limit exposure to technology that has quickly changing images, that “talks” to the child, that enables the child to be pretty much passive in the process, that limits choices and options, that keeps the child’s eyes glued to its two dimensional surface.
All of those elements inherent to technology are going to work counter to the child’s brain development and his or her ability to problem-solve, take initiative, and function well during school. Much better to begin to wean your child off this sort of entertainment and introduce leisure activities that require the child to figure something out, problem solve, build, or create. To learn more about why limiting technology use in kids is important, here are some statistics from Pew Research.
6. Balance
Try for balanceIn our over-scheduled society, it is easy to live a life out of balance. A child especially needs to have balance in his or her life. There needs to be time for active play, for work, for free play, for family, for eating, for teamwork, and for school.
His or her schedule should not be filled so full that life consists of rushing from one thing to the next. Sports and other extracurricular activities should be chosen with care, making sure that those things fall within the realm of what the child is good at, what he or she enjoys, and not just for the purpose of creating a child who is “well rounded” and a high achiever.
7. Workspace
Create an enticing, cozy homework spot
Personally I am not a fan of homework. My belief is that if I do a good job as a teacher during the day, homework will serve no purpose beyond lengthening the day miserably for the young child.
If I could run the world, I would make it so that every child’s homework was to have a healthy snack and then to have two hours of active free play. I truly believe this would do far more than the two hours of laborious and often pointless homework that kids today bring home. Do whatever it takes to make homework not a dreaded stressful way to spend the time between school and bedtime.8. Giftedness
Make a point to find your child’s blissThere is absolutely nothing in the world that will motivate your child to work very hard and persistently than to find out what makes him turned on and happy - what he or she is passionate about. Become a child-watcher who picks up on the smallest of clues as to what is interesting to the child and then fan those little flames by providing opportunities for deepening those passions. This is not the time for beginning to push your child down a path of your choosing. Once your child has firmly in mind what his or her future could be, he or she will overcome any obstacle to get there.
9. Support
Find out what is hard for your childBecause school is a one-size-fits-all operation, the majority of children have times of real struggle with what is required. You cannot always impact what happens in school, but you can make up for much of it at home. While you are mining to discover your child’s bliss or passion, also pay attention to what is hard.
Children in school are expected to all learn the same way and become masters of everything. So don’t just assume that your child needs to work harder or review more if trouble rears its head. No. At the first sign of trouble, get some help and advice about how that same “hard stuff” can be delivered in a way that is compatible with your child’s natural neural wiring. We are here to help you.
10. Respect
Respect your child as a fully formed person who was beautifully designedAdults have the luxury of being able to specialize according to their strengths. They can choose career paths that highlight their strengths. They are encouraged to follow their bliss and find what makes them happy. Let’s give our children the same respect and consideration we assume for ourselves.
If you have one child or ten, each one is perfectly created and should be respected for exactly who they are. Respect for the individual and acknowledgement of who they really are will go a long way towards empowering your child in everything he or she does.
Conclusion
A few small changes this school year will reap years of benefits. It may be a little challenging at first, as everyone adjusts to something new. Stick with it and make it your own, allowing each person to find ways that work best for them.
Let’s have a wonderful school year, shall we?
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I found myself agreeing with what you said that it’s always best to provide our children with opportunities to deepen their passions once we figure out where their interests lie to motivate them to work hard. My son is turning four soon, and I want to make sure that he gets a good education and a wonderful learning environment. I hope I can find a nearby preschool that I can enroll him in that will provide him with that environment. https://fairlawnvillagepreschool.com/programs/
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